Do you think that having sex with him is the surest way of keeping him interested? Has this always been your way of getting into relationships and you see no reason to change? With the sexual freedom women now have, do you want to take full advantage of it and you don’t want to be the prude in front of a new guy? It’s unfortunate that sex has become such a worthless commodity and any signs of restraint are now considered prudish and old fashioned.

Whenever anyone mentions holding back on sex, it is automatically associated with high morals, religious beliefs and an antiquated view of women. But it really goes further than that.

Like it or not, men view women who offer up their bodies differently from those who show respect for their bodies. Sure guys will ogle and want to touch if you’re dressed sexy and strutting your stuff like it’s free to give. But the guy who is looking for a woman to fill his heart isn’t going to look at you with much interest.

So if you want to continue filling your nights with one meaningless night of sex after another, by all means, continue as you have been. But if you want a man to share your life with, you’re going to have to bring more to the table than just your sex appeal.

When you meet a guy who’s willing to get to know you despite the fact that you’re not having sex with him, you’ll know that this man is worth your while. He wants to know the heart of you and this is where a real relationship will start.

Sex is always great, but believe me, the man worth having in your life is worth waiting for. And you’ll be surprised by the patience he has in waiting for that eventual night of passion with you. Just think how intense the passion will be when it has had time to build up with anticipation, and has had the opportunity to intensify with a slew of deep emotions.